Patricia Farmer鈥檚 experience with dementia started one evening in October 2022, with a call from her mom, Mary, who had seemed to be doing well living independently. That night, Patricia heard a discombobulated version of her mom on the line 鈥� a woman who didn鈥檛 know the day of the week, if it was day or night and had forgotten to eat. Then came a fall after Thanksgiving dinner at Patricia鈥檚 house. When Patricia took Mary home after the incident, the decline she had first heard on the phone was suddenly all around her in conspicuously hidden dirty laundry and a refrigerator stacked with rotten leftovers. Their journey with dementia has been an intense one ever since.
鈥淚 would go every morning and make sure she was up and prepare breakfast for her,鈥� Patricia says. 鈥淚 just realized it was a fast, slippery slope and she was deteriorating really quickly. My mom needed me.鈥�
is among the more than 50,000 caregivers in British Columbia who provide an estimated 1.3 million hours per week of unpaid caregiving support to people living with dementia. This May, people across the province will have the opportunity to help make a difference in the lives of people like Patricia by raising funds for essential Alzheimer Society of 91茄子 programs and services.
Patricia is being honoured at the Alzheimer Society of 91茄子鈥檚 largest fundraiser, the , in Victoria for her contribution to the community and her desire to share her story to help other people affected by dementia. Taking place in communities across the province, including Nanaimo, Oceanside and the Comox Valley on Sunday, May 26, proceeds from the event help provide critical supports for people affected by dementia while breaking down stigma surrounding the disease.
Patricia was referred to the Alzheimer Society of 91茄子 by hospital staff early in their journey and immediately felt at home in a caregiver support group, where she helps support other caregivers to prioritize their own well-being and stand up for the people living with dementia in their lives. She is very grateful for the connection and has provided for her.
鈥淚 knew it was a safe place. I knew I wasn鈥檛 alone. I felt very comfortable at the first meeting and hearing other people鈥檚 stories, I thought 鈥榃ow, I鈥檓 in the right place.鈥欌��
To help make a difference in the lives of people like Patricia on the dementia journey in your community, visit .
If you are affected by dementia, the Alzheimer Society of 91茄子 can help. Call the First Link庐 Dementia Helpline at